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so the wedding pressure is starting to build/boil... interesting. we have signed the submarine (!!) the only problem being the size - it fits less people than we would like to invite. we are going to have to keep the invites as local and limited as possible. this is that part of the whole wedding thing i dislike - the guilt. there are family and friends i cannot invite - list A vs. list B - it is a nasty business.

the other day i told mypartnerincrime he is not invited. he did not seem too hurt, but i still felt like crap telling him. after all, we were tight tight for three years, lovers even - but my tt and i feel it inappropriate for tt to meet my X for the first time at our wedding - very inappropriate indeed.

i need to collect e-Mails for to plan and solidify favors i have asked (so delighted am i to be able to reach out, yes.) mysamurai is making a nifty website/portal thingy for information and planning (groovy.) i am so happy for the electronic age as i would not be able to plan otherwise.

also on my list of things to do soon for the wedding is visiting the corsetiere - this grrlie will be drawn and quartered properly, tethered and laced, proper and perhaps prim (never.) this grrlie will be dressed to the nines, tens, and elevens yes.

now all i must do is get this buttski in gear with the plans. *sigh* almost 6 mo. to go *tick*tick*